"COMPLIMENTS THAT AREN’T ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
1) You’re empowering.
2) I like your voice.
3) You’re strong.
4) I think your ideas/beliefs matter.
5) I’m so happy you exist.
6) More people should be listening to what you have to say.
7) You’re a very warm hearted person.
8) It’s nice seeing such kindness.
9) You’re very down to earth.
10) You have a beautiful soul.
11) You inspire me to become a better person.
12) Our conversations bring me a lot of joy.
13) It’s good to see someone care so much.
14) You’re so understanding.
15) You matter a lot to me.
16) You’re important even if you don’t think so.
17) You’re intelligent.
18) Your passion is contagious.
19) Your confidence is refreshing.
20) You restore my faith in humanity.
21) You’re great at being creative.
22) You’re so talented at ____.
23) I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people.
24) You have great taste in ___.
25) I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you.
26) I wish more people were like you.
27) You’re so good at loving people."
— 3:29 p.m. feel free to add to this! (via ding-ang-bato)
I wrote this for you
but you will never know.
Not because you have no idea
how much I breathe for you.
But because you didn’t even
try to look at me while I
watch every detail
of how you hold her.
"I want to get more comfortable being uncomfortable. I want to get more confident being uncertain. I don’t want to shrink back just because something isn’t easy. I want to push back, and make more room in the area between I can’t and I can."
— Kristin Armstrong (via puissantesprit)
Anonymous said: Maybe I was too wounded by my past that I became so doubtful and scared of the future & unconciously prevent myself being happy so that I wont get hurt. Sometimes, I even think that maybe I dont deserve to be happy.. & it just ruins everything.
of course you deserve to be happy! we all deserve to be happy. and i think it’s alright to get scared sometimes. it’s alright to build walls around you and see who’s brave enough to break them and get you out. keep strong, alright? love you xx
I hope that one day if you feel like you’re lost, someone will pull you to his/her arms and will hug you and will allow you to scream and cry. Or maybe, they will share their favorite songs with you or they will give you cigarettes when you start to cry or tremble. I hope when you feel like this life isn’t worth it anymore, someone will make you feel what it feels like to be home. You deserve it.
i am so upset. this movie (stuck in love) is giving me too much emotions and it’s upsetting how beautiful nat wolff is and how flawless lilly is with logan lerman. all the characters in this movie are all so damn lovely. it’s 5:25 and i cannot handle how beautiful this movie is.
Anonymous said: thank u ate.. u helped me so much. please don't change. god bless you! i love you!
aaw thank you you sweet little cake. i love you too!!!
Anonymous said: ate, i usually don't know how to do this but i have to. but i know you'll understand me. um i have a boyfriend who befriends his ego and his own opinions about everything around him. at first, it's okay for me.. but months have passed, we argue all the time just about that issue.. everyday, actually. i keep on understanding him. i make the first move most of the time. and now, i don't want to think about getting tired of it even if that's what am feeling right now. what should i do? thank u ate
hello. ugh, it’s so hard to be in a relationship. :)
when we fall in love, we change. we may not notice it but we change for the person we love. we easily forgive, we try to understand them more than we used to do before, we always try to see the good side of everything. but honey, ask yourself. are you happy doing these things for the person you love? is he worth it? is he learning more about you after every argument? is the relationship you’re fighting for is the same relationship he’s taking good care of?
you don’t have to do everything on your own to work things out.
look how gorgeous the sky is.
It was a delicious memory.
You were holding the back
of your neck; it was five
in the morning.
Then you caught me
staring at your beauty
and you smirked at me.
I pretended that my
eyebrows were itchy just so
I could cover my face.
And then you said to me:
"Mornings will be better if
we are always like this.”
I want to be the girl who loved you more than anything that when you’re already 78 years old, you would tell your grandchildren about how I gave you the entire butterfly garden even if you cannot remember my name anymore.
Anonymous said: Dapat pala hindi ako magkagusto sa taong alam ko namang hindi naman talaga ako magugustuhan kahit kailan, masakit pero nagawa ko ulit.
we cannot control who to love and when to fall. and that’s fine. you’re alive, you will wonder about the things you feel and you will fall for things and people in different places and different situations. and in the end, you will learn. so calm down honey, it’s alright. :)
"Harder," I said.
And you pushed your words
against me as if you were
pinning me down against the floor. Every word, every sigh
and every breath.
You slammed them all
against my skin.
The words “I love you”
sounded like thunder
just beneath our feet.
"Deeper," I whispered.
And you started planting
your kisses on my neck,
lips and temple.
It was quiet, you were quiet;
and I let all your gasps sinked in.
Deeper than where they should be.
That’s why the ocean and you
are the same.
The sound you create whenever
there is a storm inside you is
like the ocean when it’s trying
to drown the shore.
Every slam of the waves,
every roar your heartbeat,
every wind above its surface;
they all sound the same to me:
a very calming melody.
Lights off, lights on.
Light on, lights off.
So basically, after a long, tiring and depressing day, all I need to do is go to my bedroom, get half naked and lay on this beautiful bed and listen to Alex Turner’s voice or Matt Healy’s.
Aah, simple joys in life.
Small reasons to be thankful that I am alive!